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KEEPING IT IN THE FAMILY
Marriage isn’t just the union of two people, starting their new life together; it also brings together two families. However, the formalities of a wedding can often instigate a natural divide on the day. Naturally, you gravitate towards people that you know. We’re not suggesting you make your guests sit with someone new, and force them into conversation. However, eliminating some wedding day ‘traditions’ can help to ease the formalities. Having the bride’s family sit on one side of the aisle, and the groom’s on the other creates a physical barrier. By all means, assign the first few rows to your immediate family and the wedding party, but does it really matter if your cousin is sat next to your partner’s nephew? You could spend hours researching ‘Wedding Day Seating Etiquette’ – or not. If you decide upon a sit down meal, then a seating plan for your guests is largely unavoidable. The dreaded top table can result in upset feelings if somebody doesn’t make the cut, and can also lead to partners being separated throughout most of the afternoon proceedings. You could always allocate 2 or 3 tables for the wedding party so their significant others could be included. Some couples are now even choosing to sit at a top table for 2, so they can enjoy a moment to themselves! After months, even years, planning your special day, in less than 24 hours, it’s done and dusted. Try to embrace every part of your wedding, especially spending time with your family and friends. Chances are, many guests have travelled from afar to see you tie the knot. Tiring as it can be, try to speak with everyone.You could even organise a pre- or post-wedding meal to extend the celebrations and ensure you can really appreciate being around the people you love.
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