Discovering YOU Magazine September 2023 Issue | Página 33

WHAT GOD HAS PUTS TOGETHER

A Multitude

of Counsel is Golden for Marriage

Article by Dr. Tunishai Ford

Why are so many Christian marriages failing and what can be done about it? I believe that some of the problems are that people who are getting married who have no business getting married, due to unresolved issues in their lives, selfishness, and immaturity. If counseling were received, many couples would be able to identify their problems and may consider not getting married at all until they deal directly with their issues. Also, another solution may be to attend pre-marital workshops and/ or seminars. These tools will allow potential couples to learn about proper protocol for dating and preparing for a lifetime commitment. Lastly, deal with emotional scars from previous relationships and/ or hurt from childhood that will interfere with having a healthy, mature relationship with someone. Sadly enough, many Christians,

Studies show that the highest divorce rate is among Jews and non-denominational Christians. This is ironic because they are supposed to be the most knowledgeable concerning marriage. Studies have also shown that the divorce rate is higher among Christians than it is among atheists.

"These tools will allow potential couples to learn about proper protocol for dating and preparing for a lifetime commitment."