BEFORE YOU SAY, "I DO!"
"It is not just about meeting Mr. or Ms. Right, it takes a commitment to working through the kinks and understanding that
men truly are from
Mars and women
are from Venus."
year together as a loving, respectful, committed and godly couple. Many couples write their own vows, but I would like to challenge you to write down on a piece of paper that you are going to take one day at a time with this union---write that down. Remember you did not marry a perfect person, in fact, the truth of the matter is you know that you have some quirks that would make any other person run for the boarder, but the one whose marrying you loves those quirks.
This is my sincere advice-Take a look at the whole picture before you decide to plan that day. Truly know what you are getting yourself into. It's understood that
you want to fall in love, court and have that special day, but what about that special life time together. I suggest that your priorities should be to have anticipation for all the days after. That means putting some thought into it. It doesn't mean placing the responsibility for your happiness on your spouse. You both have to work at making it work so that you may both anticipate that 10-year anniversary, and so on and so forth. It is not just about meeting Mr. or Ms. Right, it takes a commitment to working through the kinks and understanding that men truly are from Mars and women are from Venus. When you understand that two different individuals are going to live in a common space getting to know one another, then your anticipation for the future will be to have a successful outcome. Therefore, while you are planning that special day, also plan that special life together.