Be encouraged and enlightened on how to recover from
co-dependent and toxic relationships. Purchase your copy of
"I Miss the Hugs BUT Not the Hurts" --- TODAY!
BEFORE YOU SAY "I DO"
obstacles that they are confronted with. One united force that can build a dynasty that can last for several generations to come and above all display a love that can surpass and tear down any fault (I Peter 4:8). It is the building block of our family, community, and our society. It is the apex of the universe and the heavens. Marriage is the reason that God sent a remnant to correct the falling in the Garden of Eve. He wanted to continue the legacy of mankind and make it fruitful and multiply. It is because of this godly union that God created salvation so that that perfect world that he created can again come to fruition and thrive.
Husbands, love your wives the same as Christ loved the church and gave his life for it, (Ephesians 5:25, ERV).
Now if the things that I just mentioned don't mean freedom in being married, then I do not know what does. You chose your mate. You make the decision who you want to build your legacy with. . It is through marriage that one can find fulfillment and often realize and complete their destiny. When God said that it was not good for man to be alone, He realized that even He, being God, was not enough to bring man joy and happiness. It is a fact that in a healthy, wholesome, happy marriage couples live longer and feel more content. They do not suffer with
depression or anxiety as much as unmarried people. You are not lonely or bothered with being alone, and the best part of course is being intimate with someone you love, trust, and honor.
It is a reason why the relationship between Jesus and mankind is likened onto marriage. Jesus is called the groom and the church (body of Christ) is called the bride (Ephesians 5: 27). Certainly, God does not want us to be in a relationship with Him, if we are not free to do so. Serving God comes from freedom, and so should being married. If you are feeling or experiencing anything other than what I said, then maybe you married the wrong person or you never really understood the whole concept of marriage. Unfortunately, that is the case for many couples. But do not despair, there is hope. I recall going to a wedding and the pastor who officiated the wedding made a profound statement that I will never forget. She said, "It is not the one you can live with, but it is the one you cannot live without". That is the greatest freedom when two people come together because they get too.