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Options to Consider There are many specific options to consider for birth, from how your labor begins to the care your newborn receives after birth. The following provides an overview of important topics which you can learn more about by taking a childbirth course, reading, researching or by asking your care provider. Use of Medical Interventions Because medical induction and interventions to speed labor are common, such as Pitocin, consider how and when you want labor to begin and progress. Discuss policies and procedures ahead of time with your care provider, including breaking your water, vaginal exams, induction, pain medications, etc. Pushing, Birth, and After Birth Consider your preferences for the birth itself. Do you have strong feelings about pushing instinctively? What position would you prefer? What are your preferences at birth, including perineal support, having baby placed skin-to- skin, timing of cord clamping and options for controlling bleeding and delivery of the placenta? You may also want to consider details like who will cut the cord and who will announce baby’s sex, so that everyone is aware of your preferences. Cesarean Learn about hospital policies and procedures for cesarean birth, such as how the procedure is performed, medications used, who can provide support, your options for holding, bonding and breastfeeding with baby, and your recovery. In addition, learn about “family friendly” options, such as playing your own music, birth photography, a clear drape to see baby’s birth or other details that are important to you. Newborn Care and Procedures Environment, Policies, and Amenities Hospitals vary widely in their policies and culture, including the freedom to move, reception to doulas, food and drink, visitors, and photography/ video. They also vary in the level of attention they give to maintaining a quiet, peaceful space and involving parents in decision-making. It is helpful to ask about and understand the environment and policies at your birth place. You should also identify amenities or equipment that are important to you, such as a shower/bath/birth pool or portable fetal monitoring equipment, and make sure they are available. 10 Step 2: Know Your Options and Preferences You’ll have many options for baby after birth, including using the nursery or keeping baby with you and many procedures (vaccines, screenings, bath, etc.) and their timing. Rather than using these categories and options to create a checklist of “must haves,” it is more beneficial to use them as a guide to help you form your overall vision and identify the areas that are most important to you. After giving birth, it is normal to process the experience by comparing it to the vision you had prior to giving birth, which can sometimes lead to strong feelings (positive or negative). Because of this, it benefits you to recognize what is most important and which details are less critical.