2. While I just mentioned letting go is important it is also necessary that you
do not completely let go…you need to keep an eye on a regular basis, while I
might like doing things my age group people are doing it might not always be the
right choice.
3. “I just heard you talking about a boy” …. “ what was your friend telling you I could
hear just a part of it” …if this is what you as parents keep doing eves dropping, not
giving us our space, not giving us our privacy we might never tell you what we would
have had you not interfered in our lives.
4. While my friends could over influence me a lot does not mean mom and dad you
under influence me , at any point of time with the right words, with love you can
make me understand my mistakes and make me a better individual.
5. You do not get what peer pressure is…the need to look good, the need to look and
sound cool, the slangs, the urge to try new things…we are going to go through the
desire to do all this. Please understand that sometimes it is not our need but the
need of the time the era we live in.
6. Mom, dad I am finally what you made me to be…what I am is the reflection of what
you always wanted me to be, a large part of my existence is based on what you
taught me, from the way I carry myself to the way I talk to the way I walk to the way I
am in the company of people though things could be learnt by my friends or my peer
group a major part of it comes from you.
7. Finally I do not need your advice, neither do I want you to tell me what is right or
wrong…all I want is your love, your understanding, your trust,and I definitely will
turn into a successful confident individual.