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and that you are trying. But it’s how long I get upset for or how intensely I react, how quickly I can look at it with perspective. These are the factors that determine how quickly you can move on or learn from it or overcome it. Do you recommend setting goals? Lahiri: You can set goals for sure. I feel you have to set two goals. You set long term goals or yearly goals or five-year goals, and then you set mini goals, that is measurable, tangible. To measure in your own mind, your own progress with the work you’re putting in, that’s very important because that gives you a perspective of where you are going. Anirban Lahiri. Photo by Stan Badz/PGA Tour Has meditation helped you improve your golf game? Anirban Lahiri: Yes, understanding that you are always going to be in the process. With Vipassana meditation you’re trying to stay connected to yourself. What you’re trying to do through meditation and through sources of mental training, you’re in the process of living out your life. I’m not a fatalist but I definitely believe in going through what I need to do, with the best I can do. And then accepting, the outcome could be a positive or negative, but it’s just an outcome at the end of the day and you have to accept it. Embrace it whether it’s a win or a miss cut. And I think that is the only thing that can take you forward and to understand how that works, you need to have a certain level of consciousness or certain level of awareness about yourself. Vipassana meditation helps you get to that point because otherwise, you’re stuck in a reaction cycle instead of being in an action cycle. Did you get more upset before training in meditation? Lahiri: Absolutely, I still get upset on the course and that’s a healthy thing, as it reflects your care 48 Destination Golf .TRAVEL Do you feel you can control what’s going to happen during the round? Johnson: Control what you can control. And that means everything: from how you walk, how you talk, how you’re walking to the ball, how many swings you take, how many looks you take, things you can control. After that, it’s irrelevant. Cary Valentine is a best-selling author, sports journalist, expert mental game and peak performance coach (of the Champion Your Inner Game system) to NCAA golf teams, PGA pros and amateurs. Cary interviews top PGA pros about how they prepare mentally and spiritually for competition and keep focused between the ropes and off the course as well. He lives in Maui, Hawaii with his family. Contact: Cary Valentine [email protected] 808.212.9340