Denton County Living Well Magazine September/October 2020 | Page 39

BOOK RECOMMENDATIONS You just might be surprised at the music you fall in love with and have been missing all your life. There are many books and workbooks available to help you along your journey to self-discovery. Check out some of these top-rated choices. { NEW FRIENDS } After a loss, making new friends is often imperative. If you’re like most people in a relationship, you spent most of your free time with your partner. As a result, you may have only a small pool of friends. So get in touch with old friends and catch up. You might discover new things you have in common that rekindle your friendship. Also, as businesses in your area open up again, make new friends through work, classes, and volunteering. Meetup.com will be another option. You’ll discover a plethora of different types and age groups. There’s truly something for everyone. { MUSIC } If you’re a music lover, you know what a mood-booster music can be. Yet, if you’re like most people, you’ve listened to the same few genres of music throughout your life. So visit your library to explore different types of music, and check out a variety of CDs. Try multiple artists within each genre, since styles vary widely among any genre. You might be surprised at the music you fall in love with and have missed all your life. Beyond the more popular rock, rap, R&B, and country, there’s also folk, blues, jazz, and classical. Also, don’t skip over the world music section. You’ll find Irish/Celtic, flamingo, reggae, Latin, Zydeco, Afrobeat, and so much more. { ART } This isn’t a world just for artists. Although you might discover you have a hidden talent you never realized. Think painting, drawing, sculpting, photography, printmaking, and so much more. The other option is the pure enjoyment of looking at art. Check out some art museums and galleries. You might even want to pick up a book or take a class on art appreciation to understand art at a whole new level. { CRAFTS } Hobbies offer a host of benefits, not to mention the crafty things you can make, keep, and give. Crafting relieves stress and depression, provides challenges, prevents boredom, and can even generate additional income. Consider wood crafts, leatherwork, needlework, glassmaking, paper crafts, and countless other options. { FOOD } Learn new cooking or baking skills on your own or by taking cooking classes. You might also take up a new pastime of cooking your favorite cuisine. If cooking isn’t your thing, you can still enjoy the savory experience. Explore a wider variety of foods. Taste a broader range of fruits and vegetables, and support your local restaurants by getting take-out from cuisines you’ve never had before. { SPORTS & FITNESS } Make exercise a regular part of your routine. This is one of the most valuable things you can do for your physical and emotional health. Oh, but you don’t like the “E” word? Then consider a sport. There are so many to choose from, whether you like team sports or prefer going solo. Golf, volleyball, tennis, kickball, swimming, martial arts, and roller skating are just a few of your options. Trying and experiencing new things can provide newfound appreciation for all life has to offer. As restrictions around COVID-19 ease, you’ll also be able to add traveling to new places and visiting movie theaters to your new exciting agenda. Start Where You Are: A Journal for Self- Exploration Meera Lee Patel List Your Self: Listmaking as the Way to Self-Discovery Ilene Segalove The Good Goodbye: How to Navigate Change and Loss in Life, Love, and Work Gladys Ato This Time Next Year: 365 Days of Exploration Cynthia Scher Something Gained: 7 Shifts to Be Stronger, Smarter & Happier After Divorce Deb Purdy The Sun Still Rises: Surviving and Thriving after Grief and Loss Shawn Doyle DENTON COUNTY • 37