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He was able to empathize with our weaknesses because He lived among us and suffered as one of us. I don’t live in poverty. However, my crazy neighborhood certainly could be a TV series. It was one of the first obser- vations I made after meeting everyone. We have a neigh- bor who is always informed. Don’t think you’ll get anything past her because she knows every car, each person coming and going and has a better grasp on my calendar than I do. We have a self-appointed wine connoisseur, lovingly referred to as Gregg with 2 g’s, because there’s another Greg with one. We have Marty the girl, a social-butterfly with a love for antiques, (not to be confused with another neighbor, Marty the boy). Then there’s naked Doug. Ap- parently, he’s been known to hot tub in the buff, thankfully I don’t have any first-hand knowledge of that. I could go on, but you get the picture. While, I’m not part of pulling anyone from poverty in my gated community, there are still people in my neighborhood who are in need. We all have a need. It’s the deepest desire of all human hearts to be known, and to be loved. It’s written in our DNA to be in community and to have a family. What Kristen and our friends are doing is building a bridge. Like Jesus, they moved into the neighborhood. But let’s be honest in addressing the fact it can be hard in the day we live. It’s not all rainbows and butterflies. We have an intense political climate and a country that is deeply divided. I have strong convictions on things. I also believe we should be able to have a public discourse on issues so we can all come to a place of freedom and truth. But when I share my heart with someone who disagrees with me I need to make sure it’s the right time. I need to make sure it’s from a place of love. I want to look at the intent behind what I’m saying. Is what I’m saying redemptive? Is it for the highest and best good of the other person or is my ultimate motivation to get them to think like me so it’s easier for me to live in community with them? Even though it can be challenging at times, I’m thankful for the places God has planted us. We have walked with our neighbors in good times and in bad. We grieved with neighbors who lost a child to cancer. We’ve rejoiced with them in new jobs, at the birth of their babies. And in these defining life moments we are all the same. We’ve grown closer in the triumphs and the trials. We’ve learned to love. Read Kristen Schell: The Turquoise Table: Finding Commu- nity and Connection in Your Own Front Yard Today there are thousands of Turquoise Tables in all 50 States and eleven countries. We invite you to join us. Put a Turquoise Table in your front yard, or local community gathering space, invite neighbors and friends to join you. We are building stronger neighborhoods and communities, one Turquoise Table at a time. Follow my friends on social media at Noble Roads Media to look for upcoming, inspiring shows. To learn more about Michelle and see what she’s up to, visit her page on Facebook at “Michelle Wallace-Hand of the King”. DENTON COUNTY Living Well Magazine | NOVEMBER/DECEMBER 2018 19