Denton County Living Well Magazine May/June 2017 | Page 50

Are You in a “Pruning” Season of Life? I By Georgia Smith, MA magine you are a tree, but not just any tree. Imagine you are a beautiful, majestic apple tree of Washington, or a lovely orange tree that grows in California orange country. Or would you rather be a juicy peach from Georgia? No matter which tree you favor, the process of year-by-year growth is similar for all fruit bear- ing trees. Pruning fruit trees is necessary for new vibrant growth to occur. The defi- nition of pruning is “trim by cutting away dead or overgrown branches or stem, especially to increase fruitfulness and growth; cut away; reduce the extent of some- thing.” The pruning process does not only prune the dead branches but also the branches that have born growth and appear healthy. Pruning the dead branches and overgrown healthy ones is the only way to foster a healthy root system, and encourage abundant fruit to grow for fu- ture years. The pruning process typically takes place in wintertime. Human lives experience seasons just like our beautiful trees in nature. Our seasons are more complex of course, however, very similar. A winter season in a person’s life can symbolize a time when life appears to not shift in the direction you have hoped for and remains dor- mant. This dormancy prompts a realization that if positive change is to occur, the process of cutting away or letting go of some things in your life are necessary for the new growth and season to spring forth. This season can be uncomfortable and feel as though you are on an adventure of uncharted territory––a place where you have never gone before. Your knowledge of what this new life change will look like might be clear or many vari- ables still yet to be revealed. You are definitely in a pruning season if this sounds familiar! Or maybe you have walked this way a few times in your life, and you know exactly what “pruning season” of life means. Letting go of what has been familiar and those things which brought years of security may need sorting through to deter- mine what to take with you and what to leave behind. Embrace the process of change through the pruning season of your life, looking ahead for the new vision, and taking in- ventory of those things in your life that need pruning to make room for the new. We all know life is a journey, but can you make it an “adventure” if faced with new opportunities? Don’t let the wintertime of life fool you into thinking ev- erything will remain the same. It is this season of life that can bring the greatest changes and growth if you allow the uncomfortable process of pruning to o