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JULY/AUGUST 2020 SPOTLIGHT Continued, from page 9 he had never been 23,” said Selleck to writer Mary McNamara for the Los Angeles Times in 2011. What appeared to many like overnight success for Selleck was a long time in the making. “The luckiest thing that happened was that I didn’t get a real job until I was 35,” said Selleck to AARP in 2015. During the years of ho hum roles, he sought out acting classes to hone his craft. “When I was 25, I looked 35 but sounded 15. There are a lot of very good actors who make it as younger leading men but don’t graduate––because the audience won’t accept them as grown up.” Accept Selleck as a grown up, the public did. At the peak of his Magnum popularity, Selleck was earning well over $1 million annually, an astronomical sum in the 80s. Meanwhile, he made Oahu the destination du jour of that decade. According to a 1985 Chicago Tribune article by Ron Miller, “One can’t land on Oahu without knowing that this is Tom Selleck’s island. He grins from posters everywhere–– in the airport souvenir shops, in the booths at fast-food joints, on the sides of hot-dog stands. The tourist brochures given away in boxes along Waikiki Beach rank him up there with King Kamehameha.” At the height of the show’s popularity and his fame, Selleck abruptly stepped away from the spotlight and retreated to his ranch in Hidden Valley, California, with his wife and daughter. He wanted a quieter life away from the prying eyes of the media and obsessive fans. “I knew intellectually what it would mean in terms of being a public person, but until you’ve lived it, there’s no way to understand it. I had a feeling of, ‘I don’t think I’m cut out for this,’” he said. 10 DENTON COUNTY Living Well Magazine | JULY/AUGUST 2020 Tom Selleck Quick Takes • He auditioned with Steven Spielberg and George Lucas for the lead in Indiana Jones • He had a hip replacement in 2013. To recover, he built a bridge on his ranch as an unconventional form of physical therapy • He sometimes gets saluted by real NYPD officers when walking down the street • He’s a veteran of the California Army National Guard • One of his earliest roles was on The Young and the Restless • He earned an Emmy nomination for his role on Friends ABOVE: Selleck is best known as portraying Hawaiibased private investigator Thomas Magnum on the 1980’s television show Magnum, P.I. According to the People interview, Selleck’s self-imposed hiatus from Hollywood was extended by the disappointing scripts that would come his way. “I put up with the articles that said, ‘he’s disappeared, he’s done.’ And you do get done, I’m well aware of that. It was a big lull, but it put a lot of things in perspective.” He spent the ensuing time tending to his ranch and horses, while he and his wife raised their daughter, Hannah. His wife, actress Jillie Mack, whom he’d met in 1984 after spying her backstage after her performance in Andrew Lloyd Webber’s musical Cats, initially wasn’t keen on moving the family to a ranch. But, according the 2015 AARP article, she views it differently in hindsight. “It’s the best place to raise a child,” she said. “It was such the wisdom of Tom. He knew he needed to buy back his anonymity, to replenish the soul.” The wide open spaces also helped to strengthen the pair’s happy union, which is 33 years strong. “There’s a lot of yin and yang in us. I’m kind of quiet. She’s got this joie de vivre. I don’t know what our secret is, but I’m happy,” he said. After recharging his star wattage, Selleck was back for more success. He starred in the 1987 movie 3 Men and a Baby and its sequel, 3 Men and a