Denton County Living Well Magazine July/August 2018 | Page 31

When men feel inadequate in any ability or job they do, the
internal message “they are not enough” plays over in their
mind, no matter how much you believe they are enough.
Men need affirmation: Men have a strong need and
desire to feel validated, affirmed and appreciated in his
family and at work. Your words and actions mean more
to him than you may realize. Validating words and ac-
tions fill a man’s emotional tank and send the message
“you believe in him.” Create a place where men can
feel safe to make mistakes, without being judged or criti-
cized. Fear of failing is a strong emotion in men who
have not been encouraged, affirmed and validated. En-
courage him and send the message you do believe in
him. It’s the fuel he needs to soar. His confidence will
increase as well as his motivation to accomplish tasks
that may seem difficult. Most men like a good challenge
if they believe they will succeed.
I hope this article has been of help in understanding those
men in your life. Although not everything men need and
desire was addressed, these are some core basic truths to
glean from. It’s my hope the understanding you gain will
improve your relationships.
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