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The word prodigal doesn’t mean wayward. Rather it de- scribes one who is recklessly extravagant, having spent everything! My reaction should have been the first clue that I had some- thing to learn that day. Keller explained that the father’s welcome to the repentant son was literally reckless, be- cause he refused to “reckon” or count his sin against him or demand repayment. This response offended the elder son and most likely the local community. Keller writes, “Jesus is pleading not so much with immoral outsiders as with moral insiders. He wants to show them their blindness, narrowness, and self-righteousness, and how these things are destroying both their own souls and the lives of the people around them.” My pastor tells the story of being invited to church by a girl he had the hots for in high school. He admits he didn’t care anything about becoming a Christian, he just wanted the girl, so he agreed. He’d never been to church, and didn’t know there was a dress code. While everyone was in their Sunday finest, the men in suits and ties and women in dresses, he arrived at The First Baptist Church wearing flip-flops, shorts and a tee shirt. He sat at the end of the pew, just waiting for someone to say something. He didn’t want to be there anyway. Instead, during the greeting an elderly woman, no more than four foot tall, looked up at him with kind, brown eyes. “I’m so glad you’re here,” she said. “I can’t wait to get to heaven and tell her how instru- mental she was in my coming to Christ,” he said. As a side note, he married the girl who invited him to church that day. My pastor’s point to his message is that it’s not about how much we accomplish or get done in this life, but how we loved. He said he took the time preparing for his sermon by not thinking in terms of have I sinned or not, but have I been loving or unloving this week. If there’s good news in the story of the two sons, they’re both invited to the party. However, this particular story ends on a sad note with the elder brother refusing to come in. In Matthew 8, a Roman captain comes to ask Jesus to heal his servant. He demonstrates great faith by saying Jesus could just say the word and his servant would be healed. The Message translation powerfully conveys Jesus’ response. Taken aback, Jesus said, “I’ve yet to come across this kind of simple trust in Israel, the very people who are supposed to know all about God and how he works. This man is the vanguard of many outsiders who will soon be coming from all directions—streaming in from the east, pouring in from the west, sitting down at God’s kingdom banquet alongside Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. Then those who grew up ‘in the faith’ but had no faith will find themselves out in the cold, outsiders to grace and wondering what happened.” It’s easy for me to forget where I came from. I confess there are times I’m disturbed, even repulsed by people who live in the pig pen. They’re messy. When they tell me they’re ready to come home, often times, I’m too cynical to believe. If I’m honest, the young girl who came to her senses in the pig pen so many years ago, in many ways resembles the elder brother today. Lord, help me remember, teach me to love! I recently heard someone say, “We are not minimizing sin when we maximize Christ’s mercy. There is a difference be- tween whitewashing sin and bloodwashing it.” Every one of us comes wearing filthy rags. But when we come like the prodigal, our Father covers us with the robe of His righ- teousness. He places the family ring on our finger and puts shoes of purpose on our feet. The fatted calf represents the best, an abundant life in Christ and a party that never ends! To learn more about Michelle and see what she’s up to, visit her page on Facebook at “Michelle Wallace-Hand of the King”. DENTON COUNTY Living Well Magazine | JANUARY/FEBRUARY 2018 35