Modern Families.
Recent studies have shown that modern families are changing a lot which is something that you can see, now there are many lesbians and gay couples, a lot of divorced couples because nowadays they seem to take it like a game, couples which aren’t married or woman who have children but don’t have a partner so they end raising them alone this has advantages as well as disadvantages and I am sure one of you reading this article may have one these ¨new¨ types of families.
The Stages of Family.
First is the stage as a couple in which they begin to work in team, know each other and take decisions together like where to live or what to buy etc. Then the parental years come which begins when children enter the scene and ends when the children can live by themselves financially this of course is the stage in which we are believe it or not. This years have three stages and the first one is expanding which is basically when children are born and there are new members on the house unfortunately the parents feel a bit down because they aren’t able spend so much time together now. Then comes developing which is when we entered school and time is much more limited and then the final stage is launching which is when our parents throw us out of home and we live by ourselves and our parents begin to do what they did back when they were couples and enjoy their rest of their life together.
Parenting Styles.
The last topic we will look at is parenting styles which are: authoritative, authoritarian, permissive and uninvolved. The authoritarian is the one that you may call democratic and it’s the best style although that doesn’t mean is the most popular anyways in this style parents are attentive, forgiving and teach good behaviors to their children of course they also punish them and give them reward if they do something wrong or good respectively. Authoritarian I found is one of the worsts as it’s to give strict rules and harsh punishment without explaining and don’t talk a lot to their children kind of like a dictatorship. The third type is permissive and as the name suggests the parents are more like friends to their children and they allow them to take their own decisions although they do intervene when something bad happens or when is an outright crazy idea. The last one is the worst of them all which is basically parents that do not care about their children: they never talk to him and they don’t care what he does the only thing they give him are basic resources truly a horrible experience that no children should suffer and if you have this style and you are reading this article then search for help.
So now you know more about family remember to love them a lot they have taken care of you and teach you a lot of things and will always be there for you like your friends because your friends, real friends are also your family so don’t hate your parents and be joyful with them because one day they will be gone and you will feel bad for not having spent more time with them.