For reference , Allison Armstrong ’ s work of over 30 years breaks it down that when we are in our masculine , we are in hunter mode / human instinct and when we are operating in our feminine , we are in gathering mode / human spirit . This is for both men and women .
She further explains that when we are in hunter mode , we are laser focused and do not want to be taken off our task at hand , basically we have blinders on . Alison also explains that when we are in gathering mode , we are open to possibility for other opinions or options . She also explains that two caged animals will not mate and further illustrates how two hunters will not have a relationship that will prosper .
These insights led me to review the times in my life when I put on my own different masks . I had realized the mask I chose to wear was in alignment to what outcome I was looking to achieve and not always a healthy one . Because of many years in corporate America and over 30 years in the military I spent more of my life operating under a masculine mask . This was also encouraged indirectly with society ’ s views of women and operating in the feminine model and because of this I did not really connect with my feminine side .
So , when I was asked what I was at my core I knew it was feminine , I just have been separated from it for such a long time I was not sure how to deeply connect with my feminine essence . I knew my first step was awareness and make the choice to operate in my feminine essence and be able to call upon my masculine ( hunter ) as needed throughout my day or week . I started to realize when I went into hunter mode when I was packing / getting ready for a trip . I did not want anyone to interrupt my progress because I might forget something . Another time is when I am doing laundry or cleaning my house , I have my way of doing things and do not want anyone to interfere with my progress .
After that weekend , I asked myself what if it could be different ,