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Compiled by Luci Miller Photography supplied by Emily Yutzy and Angela Yoder one or in small groups, and that’s hard to accomplish in kids’ church.” To try to fill that need, RISE has more recently begun a mentoring program. “For a person who is willing to mentor, we pick out a child who has a need for more attention, or a child who shows extra spiritual hunger. Some children just open their hearts up to God, and there is so much potential there. We ask a mentor to commit to meeting with the child twice a month, at least two hours per time.” H E TR E NCHES PART I in a two-part series highlighting the Hutchinson Kansas children’s ministry called RISE, through the stories four young women who serve on staff. These are the stories of ordinary people leaving an extraordinary impact on their city’s youth. therapist. I honestly feel like I have the world’s best job.” How she got involved: “I started with RISE in August 2012, and it had been running for probably a year before that. It was started by a core group of teenagers, and God just exploded the growth. They couldn’t do it by themselves. “I’ve always felt convicted about trying to follow the great commission and go and tell. And kids are more accepting and a lot less scary than a college professor. I was thrilled to be able to come in and join.” A special journey: The stated vision of RISE is to lead kids to spiritual maturity. “We would love to see our kids turn into spiritual leaders in our community,” Angela says. “We’ve heard from others involved in kids’ ministries that the kids who grow up and actually stick around as Christians are those who have had someone take a personal interest in them. Discipleship happens one on “When I first got to know Yazmin, the girl I mentor, she was eight, one of the most challenging kids at kids’ church. Her mom left her dad when she was three. He was an angry person, hottempered, and had addiction problems. He was here illegally and was deported back to Mexico, so Yazmin hadn’t seen him since she was four or five. She really hated him. I think she felt significant rejection from him. “She was a controlling child, and also very articulate. She would monopolize staff ’s time talking about her daddy pain, and we would tell her, ‘The answer to this is forgiveness,’ but she resisted. Then I believe a neighbor or cousin had their dad get murdered in prison, and they told her, ‘You know, your dad could die, too, and you’re cheating yourself.’ “It was after that she came to me and said, ‘I decided to forgive my dad.’ After that she was more open to spiritual things. When she got a letter from him, she read it and put his picture up on her wall. It’s been an amazing journey watching her change. “Looking back, it’s hard to believe an eight year old was that bitter and angry, but she was. “Another little story with a lot of significance happened this past summer when she found out I had been sponsoring a Compassion child for over a year. She was upset and acted as though it was a big deal that I had not told her, like I had been hiding information from her. “I kept asking questions to try to understand why this bothered her so much, and finally she said, ‘I’m afraid you’re gonna like her better than you like me.’ “I looked at her and said, ‘Yazmin, do you remember the time you rubbed mud all over my car?’ And I named some other hard stuff we had gone through. ‘What did I do?’ “She said, ‘You waited and were patient and prayed for me.’ “’I didn’t leave you, did I? I’m committed to you. You’re not gonna do something so bad that I would give up on you.’ “And just thinking about all the hard times we’ve been through helped her to realize that yeah, whatever happens, I’m committed to her. Our relationship went to another level after that.” An answer to prayer: “I’m on the committee in charge of the 8-12 year olds,” Angela told me, “and with the 12 and under age group we came to have so much chaos, it was difficult for the speakers to be heard. The children just would not be quiet or stay in their chairs. “One of the committee members suggested we really crack down. He said the staff was not being consistent in handing out strikes--our method of discipline--and that we would need to stand together and get hard on kids, with extra drivers to take the kids with three strikes home early. “I didn’t feel good about cracking down. I didn’t want the kids to feel like they weren’t good enough for the Christians, and some others felt the same way. We decided to pray and think about it, and after our month-long summer break, we would make a decision. “I shared that need with my Sunday school class, and they all prayed. One of the ladies, Betty, is a real prayer warrior, and the next time we had kids’ church, Betty was praying. It was the difference of night and day. The kids were quiet and respectful. It was the most peaceful kids’ church we’ve ever had. God clearly showed us what decision to make. “It really made me realize that this work is God’s, not ours. We thought we needed to crack down with strikes, and what we really needed to do was cry out to the Lord for help.” To learn more about RISE, you can visit their Facebook page. 57