Daughters of Promise March/April 2015 | Page 45

DESIGN SHOULD NEVER SAY, “LOOK AT ME.” IT SHOULD ALWAYS SAY, “LOOK AT THIS.” David Craib left, and shortest on the right. This helps me see at a glance the components of an outfit. CONGRATULATIONS! By this time, you should have piles of eliminated items cluttering the floor, and a delightfully roomier closet. If not, sister, you need to go back and start at the beginning! I would be remiss if I didn’t briefly mention the importance of accruing smartly. Unless we apply the virtue of simplicity in our shopping habits, we will continuously end up in materialism – owning more than we need or can put to use. So shop smart, with attention to quality, style, and functionality. Resist cheap deals and save up for a few pieces that fit well and can be enjoyed for a long time. Turn down free items when they’re not needed. Choose neutral tones and styles that add versatility to your wardrobe. Learn to say “no” to anything that adds eye candy to your closet, but little functional use. In conclusion, I want to leave you with a fabulous quote by a designer named David Craib. He said, “Design should never say, ‘Look at me.’ It should always say, ‘Look at this.’” Though Craib was referring specifically to graphic design, I think we can apply the concept to the way we keep our closets as well. The “perfect outfit” is one that draws attention to so much more than itself. The most beautifully dressed women I know are adorned with clothing that reflects their inner character. Ask yourself, ‘Does what I’m wearing shout, “Look at ME?”’ or does it invite those around you to appreciate the refreshing values of modesty, simplicity, and femininity? I have no doubt that I will always love pairing patterns and colors. I will remain a dedicated thrifter. And my favorite part is that embracing simplicity doesn’t keep me from doing these things. In fact, simplicity allows me to do them better because it eliminates distracting, binding excess and frees me to enjoy fully what I have. So closet cleanse with confidence, girls. Enjoy the process. I expect that as you apply simplicity to your own wardrobe, you will be freed from ‘cumber’ and enabled, as Richard Foster said, “to enjoy your material things for what they are - goods to enhance life, not to oppress life.”| 45