Darkside Issue 51 | Page 17

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Meet The Commandant ...

Dominatrix and kink educator , the passionate Mistress from Texas loves to encourage healthy sexual activity , as Paul Donnelly finds out ...
PD : Hello , please can you tell us about yourself .
I am The Commandant , pleased to meet you . I was born in Dallas , Texas while semi raised in upstate NY only to come back to TX ! I am your sometimes friendly Dominatrix , and kink educator . My goals ? Oh , I want to change the BDSM / Kink world for the better ! Through passionate , open minded education I want to take the fetish world by storm . I want to heal trauma cycles , and destigmatize our lifestyles for the better .
PD : How did you get your start in BDSM ?
I started way too young due to in person influences , and also dabbled online . Gorean subculture is what got Me initially exposed , from there it spiraled into what I am today (“ kinky google ”)!
PD : Were you nervous at all , going in ?
I have been a Pro since the age of 18 and I am now 27 . I trained as much as I could with My resources and hit the ground running . There have been plenty of changes ! The online market is really what is on and popping right now . If you don ’ t have an audience or influence online , it ’ s harder for people to take you seriously .
PD : When did You first realise that You were a dominant female and when did that knowledge manifest itself ?
I had the spidey sense when I was younger , a year before I started practicing as a Pro Domme while I was training other submissives . I assumed I was a switch until slowly but surely submitting to someone no longer was serving Me in a positive way .
Absolutely ! It was a whole new world for Me to navigate . I was always nervous about genuinely harming someone , and not in a fun way .
PD : How long have You been a Pro-Domme and have You seen many changes within that time ?
PD : Do Your slaves come from any particular area of society or is it a cross Section ?
I have a way with the UK subs for some reason ! ( Probably because I do love a good accent , and want to live on that side of the world
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