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Sarah the Invader
London-based Mistress Sarah – aka the Invader – talks to Paul Donnelly about her life in the kink world ...
PD : Mistress Sarah , please introduce yourself
I ’ m British born and bred . Originally from the Midlands in the UK , I moved to London 20 years ago to go to university . I started out as as a media creative , studying fine art type . My goals are to keep educating myself and learning more about growing my business .
PD : How did you get your start in BDSM ?
I can ’ t pinpoint how , I just fell into it . I kept gravitating towards kinky people , and then I found the scene in London . I was a teenager when I found myself doing kinky things with people .
PD : Were you nervous at all , going in ? now . I ’ ve seen some changes since Corona virus , especially on the social scene in London ; traditional BDSM clubs have died , and it seems to be more mainstream . As for Pro-Dommes , there seems to be a massive increase in online domination , which has swept across the internet . Also , the learning process seems to have shortened as well , as the old-school wave of dungeons and Mistresses – where you ’ d train as a sub first , a switch , then you ’ d become a Domme – seems to be disappearing . I used to read a lot about this process , and talking to some of the older generation . Times will always change I guess .
PD : When did You first realise that You were a dominant female and when did that knowledge manifest itself ?
I was more excited and curious and I was like a sponge when it came to learning . Also it was a way to express myself .
PD : How long have You been a Pro-Domme and have You seen many changes within that time ?
I realised when I was at primary school . I used to fight with the boys and intimidate them . Then , I guess when I was 17 , I had a fling with a guy who gave me some handcuffs and said I should have them to use as I was very dominant in bed by that time .
I ’ ve been a Pro-Domme for six years PD : Do Your slaves come from any
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