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The ‘ everyday ’ Mistress ...
Mistress Modesty describes herself as the ‘ everyday London lady ’ who just happened upon kink , as Paul Donnelly finds out ...
PD : Mistress Modesty , please tell us about yourself .
I am really just a normal , everyday , “ mature ” London lady who has been lucky enough to experience a wonderfully exciting lifestyle that I would never have dreamed possible if it hadn ’ t actually happened and unfolded as it has .
PD : How did you get your start in BDSM ?
Over the past forty years , my “ personal life ” has evolved from a wonderfully happy , but initially monogamous marriage , into an amazing four decades of occasional lovers , experiencing a full swinging and open-marriage lifestyle , and over the past ten years discovering , exploring and enjoying a truly empowering journey into the world of BDSM and developing the fun dominatrix side of my personality .
Through our regular swinging adventures and clubbing experiences , my husband and I were often invited along to parties and events with kink and fetish themes which , despite hubby ’ s initial reluctance , I found fascinating and most intriguing ; so much so that I decided to explore my new interest and attend an introductory presentation to “ The World of Female Domination and Mistressing ” by the amazingly inspirational and entertaining Madame Caramel .
With my interest now well and truly aroused , I then attended a “ Mistressing Workshop ” with the equally inspiring Miss Kim Rub .
PD : Were you nervous at all , going in ?
Being very “ Modest ” in nature , I was certainly very nervous and unsure in those initial first steps . But meeting and being motivated by two such legends of the London scene , my nervousness quickly evaporated . With hubby securely collared and leashed , I was soon attending Madame Caramel ’ s “ Club Black Whip ” and Miss Kims “ Club Rub ” and enjoying the experiences of having willing submissives bowing before me .
PD : How long have You been a Pro-Domme and have You seen many changes within that time ?
Well … I ’ m not actually a Pro-Domme . My sessioning is just a fun hobby which has given me many , many moments of fun , laughter and enjoyment over the past nine years .
PD : When did You first realise that You were a dominant female and when did that knowledge manifest itself ?
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