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FEATURE FEATURE H E R O E S O F T H E N I G H T W r i t e n b y A n a W a l a c e Photography by Scarlet Bowe e asked what a typical day looked like for Grieve as an air raid warden. ‘If there’d be an air raid, then you’d have to get up whether it was one, two in the morning, and with a bit of luck you might get back to bed for a couple hours at about five o'clock!’ she says with a chuckle, adding: ‘there wasn’t any excuse for not being on duty on time, even if you’d been up all night’. We were keen to hear about Kathleen’s social life during the war, as we navigate a summer of social distancing. ‘Nothing was shut. People were still out and about,’ she says explaining the regular London commute with her father to buy things for his shop. But, she adds: ‘You’d always come out of London by six o’clock, because the sirens would go and there’d be a raid on the way’. With many individuals comparing the current crisis to the War, Grieve told us: ‘You have to experience it yourself, don’t you, to really appreciate it. It is frightening. You’d go to bed at night and never knew whether you were going to be bombed or not, and that fear hangs over you. This (pandemic) has affected everybody really hasn't it, all the countries at once. It’s not pleasant at all,’ she says. Kathleen Doreen Grieve worked at St Albans fire station, on the commuter belt just north of London. It was her responsibility to make sure people were safely in their shelters during an air raid. ‘So, you were more at risk than everyone else?’ asked her granddaughter, Emma who was facilitating our interview ‘Well I suppose, but at the time you didn’t think about it. You didn’t think about your personal risk so much. You were doing your job', Grieve tells us. We asked what memories stood out for her the most, and she explained lack of sleep being one but moreover, an overwhelming sense of 'pulling together', which has stayed with her over the decades. 'We had a laugh, we all had to get on. The sessions with the fire brigade were quite fun’, she reminisces. Even during the War,there were many times of enjoyment. ‘Everybody pulled together,’ she echoes. In the brief interview with Grieve, we were struck by her stiff upper lip mentality, describing her years of service with such stoicism. As someone with first-hand experience of protecting others in a crisis, at 101 years young, she celebrated VE Day not too long ago with her family in Yorkshire. When asked if she had anything to impart to those facing our current crisis, she advised simply to ‘get on with it’, as if reminding herself of the mindset needed in such uncertain times. Grieve left us with a sense that ‘pulling together’ may be the driving force behind ‘getting on with it’, whatever ‘it’ might look like this summer. 18