Virtue of patience :
Remember to be patient , allowing others to develop at their own pace . We are all created with different strengths and weaknesses and we are all on our own journey in life . Every person is uniquely created and the circumstances of their lives are unique . Patience gives others room to grow and change at their pace , not at our pace .
Virtue of forgiveness :
The virtue of forgiveness is a powerful antidote for a wounded , bitter soul . When we forgive someone for what they have done , or when we ask for forgiveness because of what we have done , this allows the soul to let go of the offense . Forgiving means you are willing to “ let it go ” so your own soul will not carry the burden of the offense .
Virtue of kindheartedness :
Of all the virtues I have mentioned , the virtue of kindheartedness , I would say , is most important ! This virtue carries with it the greatest and most powerful force in all creation –– love . Kindheartedness is the beginning stage of love in its simplistic form . Simple acts of kindheartedness shown to others cause emotional barriers to fall , restore betrayed friendships , and build bridges where barriers existed in hearts . Have you ever told someone “ you have just made my day ” in response to what he or she has said to you or what he or she did for you ? We all need more of our “ days being made brighter ” by simple acts of kindheartedness .
The virtues I have mentioned for healthy relationships are certainly not all inclusive and finite , but they are a great place to start ! o
Georgia Smith is in private practice as a Licensed Professional Counselor in the state of Texas providing counseling for children , adolescents , adults , and marriage and family . She is also an author of two books and a public speaker . Georgia may be reached at 469-855-0256 or via email gpsmith7 @ aol . com . www . counselingbygeorgia . com .
DALLAS COUNTY Living Well Magazine | MARCH / APRIL 2017
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