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18 Currents June 2018 > continued from page 16 problems. Although words play an important role in oral communication, they are not the only tool we use. Sometimes, we add facial expressions to reinforce our message. For instance, we may smile when we say something nice. We may frown as we describe an unpleasant event. We may even roll our eyes to express disapproval. Other times, we use gestures or body movements to add more power to our words. We hug or kiss a good friend when we say hello. We wave as we say good-bye. We clap our hands as we shout bravo for an outstanding performer. We lower our head in shame as we whisper I’m sorry. In some situations, we even omit the words and just use body language. We shrug our shoulders when we don’t care. We rub our hands together when we are cold, or fan our face when we are hot. We shake our index finger as a warning or raise our eyebrows in shock. Written communication, in contrast, involves read- ing and writing. It allows us to exchange messages in letters, faxes, emails, texts or tweets. Writing allows us to keep records of what was said or done. It permits us to pass on information from generation to generation. Words reign supreme in written communication. We must choose them carefully so that our message will be clear. In writing, we can’t use facial expres- sions, gestures or body movements as back-up tools. Writing has, however, two advantages over oral communication. First you can read at your own speed. Second, you can reread the message to make sure that you have fully understood it. Recently there has been an interesting innovation when people email, text or tweet. To save time and space, they are using emoticons or emojis to rein- force or replace words. So today, words can some- times be inadequate, even in writing! In conclusion, let’s not forget that silence can be a powerful communication tool. If you have ever received the silent treatment, you know exactly what I mean!