Creative Child November 2019 | Page 39

Gratitude helps you make and keep more friends. Gratitude helps us perceive kindness. And since it’s natural to want to reciprocate kindness when we receive it, we’re naturally kinder beings if we refine the skill to recognize kindness. A study published in 2014 by Emotion showed that thanking a new acquaintance made the more likely to pursue on ongoing relationship. Gratitude improves optimism. If we  perceive  our current life to have more good, we will also believe our future life will have more good. It’s that simple. So much of what determines our next steps in life is our current perspective. Seeing the good over the bad can mean the difference between seeing opportunities and missing them. 38