Creative Child May 2016 | Page 30

TIPS 7. Set Rules. Lay out rules and expectations for your child the day before. Hosting is a great way for kids to learn how to share. But you may be shocked at how possessive your child may get, which is a natural reaction. Prep them on having to share toys and why it’s nice for them to let the other kids go first. Then on the day of the playdate, explain what the kids can and cannot do but keep the list short, like no jumping on beds or stealing someone’s toy. 8. Don’t micromanage. One of the main benefits of a playdate is the opportunity for children to learn to get along and work out arguments on their own. Remain nearby, but don’t direct the play or interfere with minor squabbles if no one is getting hurt. 29