Often it seems there just isn’t enough time or energy left
for fun or quality one on one time, and unfortunately that
means our relationships can begin to suffer. Laughter and
play build family connection, and connection is the key to
parenting.
When I say “connection,” I mean a deep emotional
attachment, and it’s critically important for well-being
and proper development. Think of connection like a rope
between you and your child. Each positive interaction adds
a new thread that strengthens the rope. Every time you play
together, laugh with one another, say something positive
or affirming, listen and empathize, you’re strengthening
that connection. Likewise, negative interactions strip away
from the rope and eventually cause it to fray or even break.
Over time, the stresses of everyday busyness can wear
on the connection if we don’t intentionally care for the
relationship.
Children who feel a lack of connection with their parents
may start to act out, make poor decisions, have declining
grades at school, show defiance, or withdraw. All of these
are red flags that your relationship needs some TLC. On a
positive note, connection can quickly turn those problems
around and give you direct access to your child’s heart. By
adding a family fun night to your weekly calendar, you can
strengthen your family while building a fun family culture
that brings joy to all.
I know your family calendar is likely to be quite full already,
and I know that being intentional isn’t always as simple as
it sounds. However, prioritizing what matters most will be
worth it in the end, I promise!
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