Remember the golden rule : Do unto others as you ’ d have them do unto you . Always run what you ’ re saying through the filter “ how would I feel if someone spoke to me that way ?” Very few people respond kindly to demands or disrespect because all humans have a desire to be treated with kindness , respect , and fairness . With a little patience and creativity , you can turn your child from defiant to cooperative . Just remember to stay connected because without that relationship in strong standing , cooperation is hard to come by . •
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