Creative Child January 2019 | Page 10

special Feature Why Overpraise Sets Our Kids Up For Failure Not Success BY: Deborah Song Research has shown that how you praise your children has powerful repercussions on their development. Columbia University researchers, Claudia Mueller and Carol Dweck, found that children who were praised for their intelligence, as compared to their effort, persisted less, showed less enjoyment, and attributed their failure to a lack of ability, something they couldn’t control. 9