Think about how good it makes you feel when a partner notices your new hair or a co-worker remarks on something you did well at work . It feels good to be seen and appreciated . It really gives us a sense of belonging when the people that matter to us show that we matter to them by paying attention . Focus on joyful interactions and on noticing the details over the next few days , and notice the results . I think you ’ ll be pleasantly surprised ! •
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