4 . It builds tradition . I ’ ve written before about the benefits of family traditions and how they bond us together . Santa is a tradition that they can carry on with their children and grandchildren , providing so many fond memories along the way .
5 . Even though we love our Santa tradition , I admit that I was concerned with how my children might handle the truth , particularly my highly sensitive child . Only this year do they readily admit that there is no magical man in a sleigh , though our belief in Santa ( the spirit of giving ) is still very strong . They began questioning if Santa was real a couple of years ago , and I let them take the lead . They finally let it go when they were ready . There was no upset whatsoever , and they are excited to be “ in on the secret ” and to play Santa for others this year . Here ’ s a few gentle steps for explaining Santa to your children .
6 . Let them take the lead . My children would ask , “ Mom , is Santa really real ?” I would reply , “ What do you think ?” or “ Do you want to believe ?” When they replied yes , I let them know it was just fine to keep believing . You will know if your children are ready to let Santa go , or if they need to hold on a little longer . Through thoughtful conversations and active listening , you can let your child decide whether or not to keep believing .
7 . Provide empathy . If your child becomes upset , it ’ s important to empathize . I ’ d caution against blowing off their upset as “ ridiculous ” or telling them to not be upset . They feel how they feel , and that ’ s okay . Our job is to help them manage and work through those emotions . Validate them by showing empathy and listening to what they have to say . Explain why you felt that Santa was important . There are several letters available online to use as a script to explain Santa to your child which may help make easier for both of you .