Now that you know what constitutes deposits , you may be wondering about withdrawals . These include :
• Nagging
• Criticizing
• Sarcasm
• Being disrespectful
• Yelling
• Interrupting
• Ignoring
Even in healthy relationships , we make withdrawals and deposits daily . This is just the dance of human relationships . The good news about emotional bank accounts is that they allow for mistakes . No one is perfect , but when you make a withdrawal , you can apologize for that and then make a deposit to offset it . The goal is to not allow your account to go in the red . Don ’ t let there be more withdrawals than deposits . In other words , don ’ t focus on the negatives or the struggles too much .
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