Creating a tech contract for the entire
family is a very effective way to establish a
clear understanding of household boundaries
and expectations by eliminating surprises
and helping family members hold each other
accountable. Clear guidelines can also alleviate
anxiety for kids who may find themselves
pulled into watching things they didn’t initially
want to watch or find themselves sliding down
a rabbit hole of unhealthy habits.
“iRules will allow you and your family
to build healthy relationships with the
technology used inside and outside
your home,”
- Janell Burley Hoffman, author of iRules: What
Every Family Needs to Know About Selfies, Sexting,
Gaming and Growing Up.
The author advises that you think about
your child before creating a tech contract
or iRules, as she dubbed it. Think about your
child’s age, interests, tendencies, personality
traits and struggles. It may even be a good idea
to spend some tech time with your kids. See
what they enjoy watching, what they dislike
or even what scares them. This will help you
brainstorm what needs to be addressed. She
also recommends bringing everyone who
parents your child on board, whether it be a
nanny, babysitter or grandparents.
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