County Commission | The Magazine April 2020 | Page 7

probably wasn’t what he had expected. I’ve been giving advice to commissioners and county employees since a chilly November day in 1987. I’ve always thought I had every answer — and every now and then, I have been right. But now, as April turns into May in the year 2020, I’m still not so sure I have any idea what to tell people. I don’t know what to do or, more importantly, what not to do. So, I turned the tables on that commissioner. If you didn’t sign up for this, I asked, then why exactly did you run for public office in the first place? The silence was painful. But I’ve known him for years, and I was sure he was thinking. Well, he said after what seemed What the public expects — and should demand — is that we provide a steadying hand. County government should set the right kind of example for the other community opinion leaders. Its elected officials and affiliate members should provide an example that can lead us through these desperate times. like an hour, I guess this is exactly what I did sign up for. With that out of the way, we talked about his problem. We talked about his community — the confusion, the shortcomings, the fear, the unknown, the possibility that things might be better one day. Together, we forged a plan to move forward toward tomorrow. We agreed to talk again, and he promised to get to work. I took him at his word. Leadership isn’t flashy. It isn’t always found on the cable television shows or on Facebook or Twitter. Leadership is loving your community. It’s loving your neighbors. And it’s being willing to answer the questions that scare off almost everyone else. n COUNTY COMMISSION | 7