Contentment Magazine January 2017 | Page 12

BALANCE land, sea, and time hit like a tidal wave. “You’re not ready to leave…” came the unbidden thought, “You’re just not ready.” The familiar ache of heartstrings being tugged in too many directions unravelled my self-control. Drowned by the sound of the roaring engine, I succumbed to the shuddering sobs raking through my body and the tears cascading down my face. As the plane hovered somewhere between land and air, my world dropped from beneath me. All sense of balance was lost. HOME IS WHERE THE HEART IS Before I ever learned to walk, I flew. Having immediate family and close friends scattered around the world, it was predestined for my brother and I to become globetrotters. As a child, I convinced myself that the perfect chord had been struck between the different “ Perhaps it is realizing that at every departure and every arrival, you have grown into a new person. ” places I led my life, that I stood strong with one foot on either side of the Atlantic. Three months here, four months there, a week with so and so, cramming as much into a day or a handful of hours as possible—it was all part of a formula. “Home” became a concept beyond brick and mortar, a simple term that described wherever loved ones were. Every “home” we frequented imparted pieces of that culture—the energy of New York, the passion of Italy, the comfort of England—all fused together to cultivate singular interests. While “hello’s” would inevitably be countered by “see you soon’s”, everyone always knew better than to say “goodbye.” However, over the years this formula became flawed. Perhaps it is realizing that at every departure and every arrival, you have grown into a different person. Perhaps it is the fact that with age, you learn the frightening march of life’s fatal clock and begin