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D I S A BI L I T Y I S D I V E RS I T Y disabilities, which helps move the needle toward more inclusive communities for all. “One of the goals of this work is to help students understand the broad spectrum of disabil- ity. When you create oppor- tunities for active inquiry and honest answers, kids begin developing this awareness.” When I coach educators about how to foster a culture for these important conversations, I make the following recommendations. • Set ground rules. Before engaging in conversations about disability—or any sensitive topic—it is essential to estab- lish ground rules, such as: think before speaking, ask respectful questions, use active listening, do not make assump- tions, and keep an open mind. Such rules help foster a safe, respectful envi- ronment for all students to participate actively in conversations or activities. Posting the rules on a classroom wall or bulletin board allows for easy reference to ensure that students and educators are held accountable. • Model respectful curiosity. There is an etiquette to asking respectful ques- tions around sensitive topics. Students can benefit greatly when educators ex- plicitly coach these skills, including as- sessing the appropriateness of a situa- tion, thinking about phrasing and tone, using eye contact/getting to eye level, directing questions to the person with a disability versus a helper, and being pre- pared for someone to decline to answer. • Start with fiction. It is easier to discuss fictional characters than students in the classroom. Using books and videos for recognizing our similarities to and dif- ferences from others. The bridge from self- awareness to awareness of others is interac- tion, and conversation is a simple, effective place to begin. But how do you talk about disability? Even without the taboos, disability itself is a di- verse field, encompassing a broad array of visible and invisible differences. Naturally, we are more attuned to visible disabilities because detectable physical differences or the presence of assistive technology, such as wheelchairs, are markers. This can make visible disabilities an easier entry point to begin promoting awareness. Invisible dif- ferences, such as learning disabilities, are more difficult to parse. One of the goals of this work is to help students understand the broad spectrum of disability. When you create opportunities for active inquiry and honest answers, kids begin developing this awareness. With that context, they become more open to discovering common inter- ests, ideas, and experiences with peers with Continues on page 18 CSEE Connections Summer 2020 Page 17