Community Insider Summer 2019 | Page 20

TO SOCIALIZE OR NOT TO SOCIALIZE by Yvette Huffman and James R. McCormick, Jr., Esq., CCAL J oe was excited to live in a planned community and couldn’t wait for his kids to enjoy the community pool and play with neighboring children. Move in day was a joyous occasion with thoughts of community at the top of Joe’s mind. Unfortunately, after 6 months, Joe realized that his neighbors didn’t interact with each other and most members didn’t stray from their daily routines. Not one to allow his prior plans to fade into nothing, Joe researched what he could do to improve neighbor relations. After researching Community Association Institute (“CAI”), Joe found CAI’s “best practice series,” Report #5, Community Harmony & Spirit. The report provides ideas to improve the community and give cohesion to its neighbors. Joe learned the following methods of attempting to create cohesiveness and neighborliness in his community: • Hold a neighborhood swim-a-thon • Print a community T-shirt • Hold a clothing drive • Build and install park benches along walking trails 20 | SAN DIEGO COMMUNITY INSIDER SUMMER 2019 • Discover ways in your community to support local charities and schools • Sponsor a safety seminar • Schedule a pool side movie night • Facilitate neighborhood block parties • Hold quarterly town hall meetings • Hold a progressive dinner The Report got Joe’s mind flowing when he realized that these are only some of the means by which he could bring his community together. Joe next approached his association and asked how he could turn some of these ideas into reality. If you are lucky your community will have someone like Joe. If not, an owner, director or community manager can suggest means by which to bring the community together. Getting to know neighbors is the first step in creating a more understanding and well-functioning community. If your association sponsors any gatherings and the documents permit, funds can be expended on food and beverages, however, the association should steer clear of providing alcoholic beverages to avoid potential liabilities. A budget should be established to control expenses and the events should be well publicized to ensure maximum attendance. Many communities create a social and/or welcoming committee charged with overseeing these types of events and making members feel welcome and part of the community.