COMMUNICATION: How To Flirt, Start Conversations And Keep Them Going? What To Say After The First "Hello" | Page 2

AFTER THE FIRST “HELLO”
I wonder if you recently reflected on this weird situation: to know there is no such thing as a "best
pickup line a man can use” and yet thinking to yourself how to start up a conversation with that
gorgeous girl that you are watching.

So what do you say as an intro? - Or, in other words:
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How to make a good impression?
How to make her feel good and happy?
How to make her talk back to you when you say
something?
How to find the subjects she is interested in?

You know you have to be enthousiast, friendly, interested,
sufficiently good looking, assertive, fun and smart… Men
tend to focus on the verbal skills or tricks that will allow
them to make contact. However, statistics teach that the
initial – and often definitive - impression is based in the first
place on appearance and body language(55%). What you
say accounts only for 7% of the impact you make. How you
say it, for 38%.
Therefore, the first thing to do is: try to make eye contact,
even if only for a fraction of a second. If, after the first
contact, your target does not look back to you, you know that
the battle may be lost even before it’s begun. But let’s
assume she did look back. So, you decide to make your
move.

How to go about it, is described in some detail in my files about flirting and dating:
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succesful flirting and dating
elementary guide for flirting and dating
the incredible power of words.
Hypnotic communication

which you will find on
www.slideshare.net/jaimelavie
and on www.lulu.com (query= Dean Amory).
Here, you will learn that the words you say
are really quite unimportant and that there is
no point of striving to be witty or amusing
from the start. The best opening lines are,
quite simply, those that can easily be
recognized as openers. You may get inspiration from the actual environment, the time of the day,
etc…