COMMUNICATION: How To Flirt, Start Conversations And Keep Them Going? The Art Of Succesful Flirting and Dating | Page 52
Flirting tips for ladies
Every woman has a sexy flirt inside of her capable of getting a
man’s attention. However, not all women carry the self
confidence or know-how on bringing this flirtatious side out.
Flirting plays a big part in the dating world. In fact, you cannot
score a date with any man unless you give them the green light- a
sign that expresses that we are interested in them. After all,
women are not the only ones struggling with doubts and
insecurities about themselves. Men also feel insecure and unsure
on how to put themselves out there. They are afraid of reading a
woman wrong, fear getting rejected and are also intimidated by
women they find very attractive. So, if you see a man you think is
attractive and you want to get the communication started, you
have to help the boy out a little! By helping him out, you will
help yourself out too- because you like him and want to talk to
him, so let the flirting begin
Flirting does not have to be very aggressive. It depends on your
personality. If you naturally a shyer person, then you will want to
be quieter with your flirting, but still send out a strong message. If you are not all that shy and you
have a more aggressive personality, then you can be more obvious and vocal with your flirting. Here
are some flirting tips you can use the next time you see a guy you want to acquaint and get to know
better.
Shy Girls:
1. Make eye contact with a smile.
If you come across a man that catches your eye, look at him in the eyes and give him a gentle smile.
The smile is an invitation, letting him know that you are open to be friendly with him.
2. If he smiles back, Turn Around!
Once you make contact and smile at him, the ball is in his court. He smiles back, keep walking. After
a few second, slowly turn around and smile at him again. He most likely will be checking you out if he
finds you attractive, so he will see this and will smile
back at you again. If he has the courage, he will come
up to you and start talking- and you can take it from
there.
3. Swirl your feet
If you are sitting down when you see a man you like,
then give him a friendly smile and swirl one of your
feet around slowly if you are wearing a skirt. The smile
and eye contact will let him know you are into him, but
swirling your foot will draw his attention to your legs
and he will be even more curious about you.
Remember, men are visual creatures, so make sure he
sees your physical qualities. If you are sitting but are
not wearing a skirt, then you can do something else to
draw his attention to your physical sexiness! For
example, you could tilt your head slightly upwards and
rub your neck a little, as if you do not know he is
looking, but in fact he will be watching you rub your
sexy neck!