COMMUNICATION: How To Flirt, Start Conversations And Keep Them Going? The Art Of Succesful Flirting and Dating | Page 15

Once he has your attention – and through the point where you actually meet and chat – his flirting signals do become a
little more subtle. Check for the following. Men: do this!

Body Language Signals

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Many men will use one or more of these body
Don't Forget to Flirt Back
language techniques. Sometimes he may not
Being flirted with is lots of fun. If you are interested in him,
even be immediately aware of what he is
doing, but you will know if you’re observant. don't forget to flirt back. He won't know you're interested unless
you send him some signals of your own.
Remember that non-verbal communication is
every bit as important as verbal
communication, especially if the guy is a little bit shy or at a loss for words when in your presence.

He Looks at You
Since men are visual by nature, the number one sign he is
flirting is when he looks at you. A single glance is not
enough when he’s attracted. If he likes what he sees, his
glance will linger longer than normal, and he will quickly
return to looking at you when he finally does look away.
Also be watching for the triangular look, where he starts
with your eyes, moves down to your lips and chin, and then
inspects the rest of you before returning his gaze back to
your eyes.

Lifts his Eyebrows
When he lifts his eyebrows, this is a signal that he is
interested in what you have to say. If he is still across the
room and you are exchanging glances, then his raising
eyebrows are a sign that he would like to talk with you.
Raise your eyebrows back at him and he may walk over to
meet you.

His Face Widens and Lips Part
In addition to lifting his eyebrows, he may also widen his
face and slightly part his lips. He widens his face by flaring
his nostrils ever so slightly. The result of these movements
is to make his face appear friendlier and open to meeting
and talking.

Shifts his Stance
If he is standing and facing you, watch for a shift in his
stance. The classic male pose is to directly face you with
his feet pointed right at you. This signals that all of his attention is on you. It also makes him look tall and strong. Watch
his hands to see if they move towards his hips or belt. This further makes him look even stronger and more engaged.
His face and body language ‘open’. He’s putting himself on display and looking receptive. His eyebrows raise, the eyes
widen, the lips part slightly – even the nostrils flare. What this means is that he’s taking away the blocks he might use in
his more lad-oriented life and inviting you to see and engage with the sensually sensitive real him.
He’ll stand tall – and look manly. He’ll square off and pull himself up to his full height, displaying his prowess – and
he’ll make sure you have time to admire him.
He’ll draw your eyes towards his groin. It’s basic but that’s what he’s up to. He’ll sit with his legs apart. If standing,
he’ll hook his thumbs over his belt, or leave them outside his pockets, this both opening his posture and pointing to the
meat of the matter, inviting you to contemplate what he’s got there.