COMMUNICATION: How To Flirt, Start Conversations And Keep Them Going? In Depth Guide to Approaching, Flirting and Dating | Page 13
4. Practice mind reading and prediction of the future
Using gathered information for “mind reading” or making correct assumptions is very useful to build a sensation of
rapport and will make the listener more receptive to your propositions.
Right now you may ask yourself
You probably feel something
By now you will see, understand,
agree …
I see that you start to understand,
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I am so glad to hear that you feel
the same way …
You will soon start feeling, you will
see, you will enjoy,
We will first … and then you will
know, see, feel, …
Once you have fully understood
this, you will be able to …
Be careful to use vague or ambiguous phrases :
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By this time, you might start to become aware of this special sensation
That (what ??) can feel so good, can’t it?
You know, every once and a while one meets somebody, and while you talk with them, you
can feel how your problems turn into clouds that slowly dissolve in the summer sky
A good and safe way is to tell things by implication :
I wonder if you already realize that the main advantage …
I don’t know if you already noticed that …
By now, you may feel how the desire keeps growing
And then this sensation of … will increase more and more
You can keep feeling more …
You will feel completely satisfied
Again, we …
Once you have fully understood this, you will be able to …
Everybody knows, We all feel that …
You will feel so secure, so relaxed, so happy …
Telling the listener what he knows, feels and thinks, is not enough however:
you should link it to what he must do next :
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straight links
and, also, but,