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4. Practice mind reading and prediction of the future Using gathered information for “mind reading” or making correct assumptions is very useful to build a sensation of rapport and will make the listener more receptive to your propositions. Right now you may ask yourself You probably feel something By now you will see, understand, agree … I see that you start to understand, … I am so glad to hear that you feel the same way … You will soon start feeling, you will see, you will enjoy, We will first … and then you will know, see, feel, … Once you have fully understood this, you will be able to … Be careful to use vague or ambiguous phrases : • • • By this time, you might start to become aware of this special sensation That (what ??) can feel so good, can’t it? You know, every once and a while one meets somebody, and while you talk with them, you can feel how your problems turn into clouds that slowly dissolve in the summer sky A good and safe way is to tell things by implication : I wonder if you already realize that the main advantage … I don’t know if you already noticed that … By now, you may feel how the desire keeps growing And then this sensation of … will increase more and more You can keep feeling more … You will feel completely satisfied Again, we … Once you have fully understood this, you will be able to … Everybody knows, We all feel that … You will feel so secure, so relaxed, so happy … Telling the listener what he knows, feels and thinks, is not enough however: you should link it to what he must do next : • straight links and, also, but,