COMMUNICATION: How To Flirt, Start Conversations And Keep Them Going? How to Make Enticing Conversations | Page 6

5. YOU SHOULDN’T REALLY THINK THAT YOUR WORDS MUST BE THE START OF
A FLIRTATION. Nope: all they need to convey is your interest and your desire to start a
conversation. In this way you save everybody the risk of causing offense and the
humiliation of a direct rejection in case the chemistry just isn’t there. At the start her
body-language will teach you more about your chances of success than the actual reply:
is she nodding, smiling, leaning forward, taking on an open posture, … ? Distinct
advantages for you are: Being a good listener; Finding ways to compliment in a pleasing
way; Confirming her in how and what she is; Giving positive, emphatic feedback;
Teasing her; Showing some sense of humour, making her smile.