COMMUNICATION: How To Flirt, Start Conversations And Keep Them Going? How to Make Enticing Conversations | Page 3

2. THE FIRST THING TO DO IS: try to make eye contact, even if only for a fraction of a
second. If, after the first contact, your target does not look back to you, you know that
the battle may be lost even before it’s begun. But let’s assume she did look back. So,
you decide to make your move. How to go about it, is described in some detail in my
files about flirting and dating which you will find at the Jaimelavie spotlight at Lulu com.
(www.lulu.com/spotlight/Jaimelavie) The first thing they will teach you is that the words
you say are really quite unimportant and that there is no point in striving to be witty or
amusing from the start. The best opening lines are, quite simply, those that can easily be
recognized as openers. You may get inspiration from the actual environment, the time of
the day, etc… It is a good idea to have more than one opening line in your sleeve. You
may need the second to restart the conversation if the first one does not trigger the
conversation.