Colossium Magazine March Issue_2020 | Page 67

Ohemartin says she would no longer hide behind the façade and veil society has woven over the years to deny herself the undeniable pleasure of what true fulfillment is. The 20 years old lady says she is not championing any cause, “you have to be yourself regardless of where you find yourself on the gender spectrum. The love will come, the hate will come but you really have to focus on the love. People are people so you have to love yourself”, and all she is doing is merely living her life. Coming out as who she is, she says was a rather bold step and many would choose to hide in the closet. Ohemartin’s sole motive other than living her life the best way she knows how is to inspire anyone out there who is ladened with the same plight to come out from the darkness for there are beautiful colors waiting to receive them. Marriage is definitely not on her table but motherhood is something she would love to experience at a point in her life. She says she is currently not attracted to anyone, male or female and has not yet broken her ‘virginity’ since she became a transgender. G iven the opportunity to change her genitals to that of the female organ, Ohemartin says she loves it in the between, “I haven’t touched my butt. I think I got it from my mom. She really has a big butt “. Being sexy, teasing fans and admirers with her sensual looks is 67 | Colossium . March 2020 not a habit. She only takes pictures and shares them as and when she feels like and never on the back of leaving admirers thirsty. You would be quick to believe and assume she has undergone some sort of surgery to possess the desired perfect body some are dying to have but in truth, all she has on her came naturally. “I haven’t touched my butt. I think I got it from my mom. She really has a big butt.” Ohemartin’s letter to her younger self; ‘My seven years old self would be proud of the bitch I have become… Ohemartin believes in God and keeps to her Christian faith. She says God did not come for the righteous and for sinners like herself; “I love God and I am very prayerful. God does not look at the outer package to determine this one does not deserve this blessing. It is always about the inner person and the inner side of you.” With a mother’s ultimate love, family that loves her and friends who admire who she has become, Ohemartin would definitely reach the heights she so desire to. Ohemartin’s letter to her younger self; “My seven years old self would be proud of the bitch I have become…” Back to the Contents page