Coaching World Issue 2: May 2012 | Page 3

Leadership Leadership Leadership J. Whittington Seeing Client Relationships as Constellations 3 Coaching World | May 2012 Register by August 31 and save! “Constellations are a methodology within this particular kind of systemic coaching, and systemic coaching is working in service of the whole system, not just the individual or team and in service of greater flow through and in-between systems,” says Whittington. • Inspiring world-class speakers For example, often in organizational and executive coaching you will have someone who is finding difficulty occupying their authority in their role as a leader. When you ask them to set up a constellation using physical objects for themselves and their team, it will often reveal Make plans to join the world’s biggest coaching community gathering at Novotel London West in London, UK, this October! Connect, learn from, and be inspired by: (Mega Catalysts include: Brené Brown, David Whyte, and Camila Batmanghelidjh); • Innovative tools and coaching techniques; • Joining with your peers; • The latest coaching research; and • Gather ICF CCEUs! Visit Coachfederation.org/icfglobal2012 for registration and schedule information. Early bird registration savings are available through August 31. Research The process of creating a constellation can actually be quite simple. To begin, a coach trained in this approach will ask someone with a question, challenge or issue to choose a representative (an object in one-to-one coaching, another participant in a workshop setting) for themselves, and then another for each of the other key elements in the system. These could be other people they are in relationship to or work equally well when exploring relationships to money, values or authority for Constellations are used in one-to-one coaching personal, leadership and executive coaching as well as with teams very effectively. Systemic constellations are also a useful tool in organizational design and development, and in working to improve organizational effectiveness or what Whittington calls Organizational flow. Marketing “It’s a way of externalizing your inner picture of a relationship, an inner picture you didn’t know you had until you see it in front of you,” explains John. “Constellations are a way of visualizing and creating a 3d model of your unconscious and of the way you hold a particular relationship; one that is beyond mental and rational knowing, and more about your felt sense, your embodied experience of the relationship.” “It’s a process that’s very useful for illuminating what’s going on at the level of the system,” says Whittington. “It’s often very surprising what a constellation shows, because it reveals the hidden dynamics, and the unspoken, unseen relationship architecture. Beyond the story, beyond your idea of the relational pattern.” Benefits A constellation map can be created with a variety of objects. Profiles example. They are placed in relationship to each other, guided by the coach and using the client’s felt sense of the relationship. This approach always reveals fresh information. That’s just the start of a process, referred to simply as mapping, a full constellation goes much further and will often lead to a picture of resolution.