Coaching Insight Volume 8 | Page 25

Understanding Pressure S ome players feel little pressure in difficult situations, some feel pressure but it doesn’t b other them and some feel it and crumble. The difference is in how people relate to pressure, and therefore, how they perform with or without it, depends on their understanding of it. If we have a clearer understanding of pressure, we are less likely to be tricked by our own thinking and less inhibited by feeling pressure. Where does pressure come from? It looks as if the situation – the level, difficulty or importance – is the cause of our feelings and emotions (eg pressure). However, this is a trick of the mind. There is nothing outside of us creating a feeling and implanting it into our heads. There is no situation where two people feel exactly the same and when we think about it, when we’re faced by the same situation more than once, we don’t feel the same about it every time. For example, sometimes we are nervous walking out to bat and sometimes we aren’t. Some people get road rage when they are cut up on the road and others don’t. While it looks as if the cricket match causes the feeling of pressure, it can’t. Pressure is only one thing; a feeling. A normal, natural, transient feeling that every person on the planet experiences. The more thinking we have on our minds (eg What happens if I fail? What does everyone else think? Am I good enough?), the more pressure we feel . The less we have on our minds, the less pressure we feel. The more we believe that what happens in the game – performances, results, trophies, money – determines how we feel, the more unnecessary thinking we will do about the game, and therefore the more pressure we will feel. When people realise that pressure comes from inside, not outside, it looks logical to fix, change or fight their thinking so that they feel less pressure. However, all attempts to change our thinking only create more thinking! Feeling pressure is an important part of being human; it reminds us that we’re overthinking the situation and should instead trust our instincts; it reminds us that we only appreciate the feeling of freedom in comparison to the feeling of pressure (just as most of us enjoy the sunny days of the summer having experienced so many cold, windy days preceding it!). How can players deal with pressure? To help players deal with the difficulties they encounter in the game, set up challenging scenarios for them in sessions. Players get used to adapting, surviving and overcoming challenging situations through practice. 23