Church Partnership Newsletter August 2014 | Page 5

Bullying Bullying doesn’t just happen to the smallest kid in the class. Bullies target those who seem to be less powerful or not as strong. Bullies also often target children who seem "different". Bullying can be physical, involving hitting or attacking another person. Bullying also can come in the form of verbal or electronic aggression (using the internet or cell phones, for example), including name calling; verbal threats; and threatening, embarrassing, or insulting emails or texts. A bully also might use psychological aggression, including spreading rumors or excluding a person from activities or conversations. Bullying, teasing, and harassment should not be considered normal rites of passage or just "kids being kids". Ohio Revised Code, section 3313.666 prohibits harassment, intimidation, or bullying in schools, effective March 30, 2007. Although this law does not apply to private schools, all public school districts must prohibit bullying. The law describes bullying as "harassment, intimidation or bullying" as any intentional written, verbal, electronic, or physical act a student has exhibited toward another particular student more than once. Bullying includes both physically beating up or attacking your child, or verbally abusing your child with treats, taunts, etc. Your child does not have to be physically harmed to be a victim of bullying. The law also includes any violence within a dating relationship as an incident of bullying All public school districts must establish a policy against bullying. You should be able to view the schools antibullying policy every year in your student's handbook. If a school district is receiving government funding to support anti-bullying efforts, age-appropriate information must be given, as well as a verbal discussion and the consequences of violating that policy. If you find your child has been bullying others, don't ignore the problem. Ask the school, your child's pediatrician, or another source for help in putting a stop to this behavior. If your child is the victim of bullying, report the incident immediately to your child's school. Make sure the school follows its anti-bullying policy. Children and youth who are bullied are more likely than other children to: • Be depressed, lonely, and anxious; • Have low self-esteem; • Experience headaches, stomachaches, tiredness, and poor eating; • Be absent from school, dislike school, and have poorer school performance; and • Think about suicide or try to commit suicide. It is important for everyone in the community to work together to send a unified message against bullying because it can threaten students’ physical and emotional safety at school and can negatively impact their ability to learn. Talk to your children about bullying. Kids who know what bullying is can better identify it. They can talk about bullying if it happens to them or others. Children need to know ways to safely stand up to bullying and how to get help. Resource: http://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/tourette/bullying.html, http://www.ohiolegalservices.org/public/legal_problem/studentsschools/bullying-in-schools/qandact_view, http://www.stopbullying.gov/prevention/talking-about-it/index.html But God has combined members of the body… its parts should have equal concern for each other. 1 Corinthians 12:24-25 (NIV)