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Tammy Manzo
Please enter me in the contest for either a tarot, mediumship or oracle reading. Here is my question. "Lately my guides have been bringing me opportunities to learn to set up boundaries, and it is very difficult for me. Why is it so hard for me and what can I do to better set up the boundaries?" Thank you so much!
Hi Tammy I have laid out some cards for you and see that you are somebody who is full of energy, you love to be on the go and rarely take the time to sit still and gather yourself or catch your breath. I believe that you are a person who is very ready to help others who ask for your help. I believe you find yourself running around a lot for other people and that this uses up the great energy that you have, and when it comes to doing your own things you have only a little energy left and therefore things get left undone. If you take the time to look at your situation from a different perspective you will see that you are using your time in a manner that is not allowing you to achieve your own goals. Your guides will be teaching you to put up boundaries because you are not very good at maintaining them, and unfortunately the harder something is, the more we need to learn it. If you had good boundaries in place you would feel comfortable to put your own needs first and then be in a better position to help others. As it is you and your own needs come secondary to everybody else. Taking time out for yourself is a need, it is not a luxury and you should not feel guilty in doing so. You work very hard and earn the time you need in order to relax and recharge. It appears that there are a lot of people who take advantage of your good nature in lots of ways. It is time to call on all the debts and put things back to rights. You cannot be the supplier of everything that everybody needs forever, and it is time for you to speak up for yourself. Ask your guide to help you get through this lesson and they will be very happy to help you.
My question is: What is my purpose in this life time?
Hi Joana When I laid out the cards for you Joana, I felt that you often find yourself in positions that feel uncomfortable to you and that you seem to be the person who is often on the receiving end of other people’s anger and frustration. People come to you with their problems and they expect you to work them out. I feel that also you are sometimes on the direct receiving end of this anger as in it is directed towards you. We each of us have many purposes in every lifetime and it is hard to pinpoint just one. But looking at the cards I have laid out for you I feel that you need to learn to be stronger within yourself in standing up for your rights. I believe others find it easy to bend you to their ideas and that if you do not follow on with them then you are made to feel useless. You need to learn to say no, and to not be intimidated by the things that they say. You have every right to be your own person with your own ideas and of course lessons do not always come easy, but the quicker that you learn to stand firmly to your own beliefs and ideals then the easier this lesson will be to learn. Make the decision to walk away from other people’s drama, and do not trouble yourself with it. It is not fair for them to make you feel bad because you cannot fix their problems. That is their lesson to learn and you are doing them no favour by taking on their troubles yourself.
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Joana Velez
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