Changemakers Special Forgiveness Issue | Page 11

Facing up to the injustices of the past T By Davina Patel he Dalai Lama once said that the fabric of society is kindness. Without kindness, compassion and care for individuals, society cannot succeed and develop. So how do communities repair when violence leaves scars? South Africa is an example of a country torn apart by wars, colonialism, slavery and Apartheid, but one woman’s story of forgiveness gives hope to a nation still living with the effects of war. ‘Without forgiveness there can be no future for a relationship between individuals or within and between nations’ – Archbishop Desmond Tutu. South African Ginn Fourie, a mother who lost her daughter to Apartheid in the Heidelberg Tavern massacre in 1993, has forgiven the man [Letlapa Mphahlele] who ordered the fatal attack. Her story of forgiveness and reconciliation shared in Beyond Forgiving, has ins