A guide to being a better alley
by bre adams
As a gay person with a lot of straight
allies in my life, I have a few tips for
being a better ally. I am by no means
an expert, but here are a few pieces of
advice .
First, don’t compare different forms of
oppression (even if you face oppression
in some way ). For example, don’t compare
racism and homophobia.
You may
understand how it feels to oppressed but
don’t speak for other minority groups.
Secondly, sometimes the best way to be an
ally is to shut up. For example, I think
that straight allies should call out
homophobia, fight for rights alongside
us, go to Pride festivals, but shouldn’t
talk over us, or talk for us .
Lastly, ask for pointers! Ask your queer
friends their correct pronouns, sexual
identities, and what they’re comfortable
with. And make sure to listen to them !