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Seeing it all slip away can be devastating for some bodybuilders. but you need to see the big picture if you are to learn from the experience and be motivated to bounce back mentally stronger in the future. As hard as it is to accept, you How to learn from the missed experiences: are more than that one moment. Please re-read that statement. As a bodybuilder, you are the sum total of everything you put into your sport. You are a hard worker... You are resilient coming back from injury and overcoming mistakes... You are an achiever who has risen to many challenges and improved your physique and conditioning throughout the years. Feel The Feelings – The disappointment is undeniable and it is normal to experience those negative emotions. Take Responsibility – The first step to move on is to take responsibility for your performance (e.g. read my March article on “How Excuses Hurt Your Mindset in Sports”). Credit Your Successes – If you are going to admit to mistakes, you must also credit yourself for your successes. In addition, you are more than just a bodybuilder. You are a person with talents, skills, and positive qualities outside of your sport. It may be difficult to wade through the negative thoughts and emotions after missing out on an opportunity